Don't know how to help you with your Charizard there. I don't even know what to do with my Feebas's own issues.

As for your babies...

[Cue being shown a Charmander clinging to Misaki's side, waving her tail back and forth like a happy dog. Notice how its a bit larger than usual and doesn't seem to have intention of letting go any time soon.]

Kiyo happens to be doing fine, I guess. She's kind of clingy though.