Do something with your friends! Or your family! Or your wife! Anyone, really! You don't have to do everything for a reason, sometimes you should just do something because you like it and it's fun! [ why don't kids know how to have fun here, seriously. it's not like there's a war here. ]

If you use the strength you have for the people around you it's a wonderful thing... But if you're so focused on being strong you don't enjoy the time you have with them you'll definitely regret it.